The 5-Layer Conversation System (Never Go Dry Again)
Layer 1 – Observational Hooks (first 3 minutes)
10 lines you can say in any venue:
15 bulletproof cold reads:
“You’re definitely the mom of your friend group”
“You strike me as someone who secretly loves horror movies but pretends not to”Layer 3 – Emotional Spikes & Stories (15–60 min)
Exact storytelling formula:
Hook → 30-second story → punchline/tease → question back
Example: “Last month I got stuck zip-lining in Costa Rica… long story, but I’m terrified of heights. What’s the dumbest risk you’ve ever taken?”Layer 4 – Deep Dive Questions (60–120 min)
20 questions that create instant connection:
15 lines that escalate smoothly:
10 lines you can say in any venue:
- “You have that ‘main character’ energy today — what’s the plot twist?”
- “Your drink choice just told me everything I need to know about you… dangerous”
15 bulletproof cold reads:
“You’re definitely the mom of your friend group”
“You strike me as someone who secretly loves horror movies but pretends not to”Layer 3 – Emotional Spikes & Stories (15–60 min)
Exact storytelling formula:
Hook → 30-second story → punchline/tease → question back
Example: “Last month I got stuck zip-lining in Costa Rica… long story, but I’m terrified of heights. What’s the dumbest risk you’ve ever taken?”Layer 4 – Deep Dive Questions (60–120 min)
20 questions that create instant connection:
- “What’s something you believed for way too long as a kid?”
- “What’s the one memory you’d relive if you could?”
15 lines that escalate smoothly:
- “Careful… people who bite their lip like that don’t make it home early”
- “We should never be left alone in a kitchen together — zero chance anything gets cooked”
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