The 8-Message-to-Date System (Works Everywhere)
Message 1 (Opener): Her name + specific detail + playful tease
Example: “Emma, that Paris photo is unfair… did you really eat all those croissants or just pose?”Message 2–3 (Hook & Qualify): Short reply + question
She: “Haha guilty” → You: “Okay croissant criminal… what’s the most spontaneous thing you’ve done this year?”Message 4–5 (Value + Callback): Short story + return question
“Last month I booked a random flight to Barcelona at 3 a.m.… your turn”Message 6 (Light Sexualization): Future projection
“We’d either get banned from karaoke or start a band — 50/50”Message 7 (Close): Direct date suggestion
“You’re way too fun for this app. Drinks Thursday or Friday?”Message 8 (Lock): Specific day + venue
“Perfect. Thursday 8 pm at The Vault rooftop — best cocktails in the city”Rules
Example: “Emma, that Paris photo is unfair… did you really eat all those croissants or just pose?”Message 2–3 (Hook & Qualify): Short reply + question
She: “Haha guilty” → You: “Okay croissant criminal… what’s the most spontaneous thing you’ve done this year?”Message 4–5 (Value + Callback): Short story + return question
“Last month I booked a random flight to Barcelona at 3 a.m.… your turn”Message 6 (Light Sexualization): Future projection
“We’d either get banned from karaoke or start a band — 50/50”Message 7 (Close): Direct date suggestion
“You’re way too fun for this app. Drinks Thursday or Friday?”Message 8 (Lock): Specific day + venue
“Perfect. Thursday 8 pm at The Vault rooftop — best cocktails in the city”Rules
- Never go past 10 total messages before asking out
- Voice notes double reply rate
- If slow replies → wait 48 h then re-engage with new hook
- Always assume the yes
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